TZ here; I warmly recommend repeated listenings of this beautiful brilliant talk given by Bentinho Massaro. It will support you in knowing who you truly are. It has lots of advice about how you can be certain that you are following your true calling / mission. It will help you to find your joy. He gives clear understanding / insight as to how and why ‘they’ gain control over us which they do when we focus on opposition. At 44 minutes in he reminds us that “the less you see opposition the less you can be messed with”. Enjoy!